Let's talk dating as a new parent--I mean, how does anyone do it? Okay, I know how people actually do it (after all, we've somehow managed to get out on three (?) dates since having Raven), but the thought of being able to go out regularly on dates again just seems an idea too impossible and fantastic to fathom at this stage of new parenthood. So we go out on quote-unquote "dates" about two or three times a month with baby in tow, which we're calling good for now.
And sometimes we even are able to convince our other new-parent friends to make a double date of it (which adds a little friend for Raven, to boot).
(You will notice that although we are counting this as a date, Matt didn't actually make it into any of the pictures. Whoops!)
Looks like I might have to get comfortable with the idea of hiring a babysitter, huh? (Or just be willing to drive the hour and a half to where our family is anytime we want to go out.)
Before having Raven, because we were as free as we wanted to do whatever, whenever, we often didn't really plan out dates. Isn't that funny? When we had all the time and freedom (and money, somewhat) to go out on more lavish dates, we didn't take the time to plan them out hardly ever.
Now that we have to plan them out though, I think our dates will probably end up being a little more meaningful than just your typical dinner-and-movie fare.
Here are 10 dates I'm wanting to try out or that we've already tried and loved. (I hope you'll get some good ideas for your own nights out!):
1. Attend an exercise class together, preferably one that neither of you have ever done before. Or, if group exercise classes aren't your thing, splurge on a joint session with a personal trainer.
2. Plan a themed at-home movie marathon day/evening, complete with treats and blankets on the floor. (I'm actually planning a blog post all around themed movie marathons, so stay tuned.)
3. Recreate your first date, but in a different city.
4. Take a stroll through a public garden. Don't forget to take pictures!
5. Plan a laidback picnic in the park. Don't forget to take some time on the swings and slides before leaving!
6. Find an unusual holiday that you don't normally celebrate and plan a date around it.
7. Check out a new restaurant in town with the mission of posting a review (on a site like TripAdvisor or Yelp) after. Chat about the atmosphere, food, and service just like you would if you were actual restaurant critics. Then actually post a review!
8. Do a "date of service," where you cash out the money you would have spent on dinner and a movie to go out on serve people. You could pay for someone's parking meter, buy a hot chocolate for a stranger, buy a bunch of balloons to hand out to kids...the options are endless!
9. Plan to hit a local art exhibit on an opening night for free art AND free food!
10. Go to a local event that neither have you ever attended, like an opera performance or a color run. Don't forget to take pictures!
Hope this gave you some fresh ideas to try out! For more reading, check out some of these past posts I've done relating to dating or that illustrate dates in this post:
- International Kissing Day Date (Idea #4 and #6)
- Our Spontaneous, Non-Gourmet Picnic (Idea #5)
- 10 Summer Date Ideas
(And to end--an adorable pic that has nothing to do with the above dating ideas.
Well, other than the fact that it was on our almost-date picnic.)